Book Review

Don't Burn Out, Burn Bright

By Jason Young & Jonathan Malm

Review By: Misty Fraelich-Clark

If you are leading in any capacity of life, I am sure you have found your candle not burning as brightly as it could. To maintain a passion for leading others well, we must be mindful of ourselves and what we do to continuously fill our cups and be a light to others around us. The leadership team at Hummel Group read Don’t Burn Out, Burn Bright by authors Jason Young and Jonathan Malm. I found the book to be an easy, relatable read, as they provided practical ways to lead well and avoid burning out. Two topics that stood out to me from the book were Embracing Your Imperfect and Setting Boundaries.

"We’re attracted to effective, humble leaders, even embracing their flaws as something endearing when those flaws are accompanied by humility (34).”

Often, I find it difficult to share my struggles and have unrealistic work habits to fulfill the demands of my roles in life. Young and Malm provide a powerful truth: “The truth is, people aren’t attracted to perfect leaders. We’re attracted to effective, humble leaders, even embracing their flaws as something endearing when those flaws are accompanied by humility (34).” I found it is easier to connect with others and build relationships when I let down my guard—embracing the fact that I’m human, not perfect. “Imperfect leaders, weirdly enough, provide a sense of safety for those they lead (35)”.  So, embrace your imperfect!

As I read, the chapter about setting boundaries was refreshing not only because it is healthy to have boundaries but because boundaries are building blocks for future growth. “If you don’t start incorporating healthy relational boundaries, there’s a chance you’re heading towards exhaustion. Boundaries help us create a framework for better loving people and for surrounding ourselves with people who recharge and energize us (117)”. Setting boundaries can feel mean, but saying no is necessary to maintain a positive energy by surrounding myself with people and projects that bring me joy. In turn, by setting parameters, I can provide people around me with positive energy, which is contagious.

I found wonderful insights outlined in the book to incorporate healthy concepts into my life in order to maintain the energy and focus I needed to lead personally and professionally. It is essential to recognize the importance of rest and to prioritize it in our lives, allowing us to focus on what truly matters and to lead with strength and transparency.